Each and every person you know is a resident expert about themselves … living within their body. I learned (or relearned) an important lesson on Tuesday: when people tell you who they are – believe them. Truly believe in what they are saying about themselves. As such, each person can convey who they are, what they stand for, if they possess integrity (or not), are they egotistical, can they be honest, do they enjoy pushing buttons, can they work in a team, are they authentic — or fake.

How often do we discount what we observe, hear or feel when interacting with others? I believe it occurs regularly with little regard … or without giving it a second thought. Most often I find myself seeking the good traits and avoiding the offensive ones. However, I usually know the moment “when” a person communicates who they are. The more difficult mental hurdle is accepting what we know to be the truth. Again, people will tell you who they are, just let them. If they tell you that they are: egotistical, manipulative, condescending, a liar, fake, hateful, a ‘gamer’ or anything else that would eliminate them from your friends and family circle – let them go.

I’ve reflected on an image for today that feels pretty good – it gave me hope that sunny days are just around the corner. More sun than rain. More hope.

Peace